{"id":1114,"date":"2016-11-23T19:00:23","date_gmt":"2016-11-24T00:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/?p=1114"},"modified":"2016-11-23T19:01:08","modified_gmt":"2016-11-24T00:01:08","slug":"10-things-thankful-toxic-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/toxic-people\/2016\/11\/23\/10-things-thankful-toxic-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Being Grateful: 10 Things to Be Thankful For When You\u2019re Dealing With A Toxic Family Member"},"content":{"rendered":"<body><p><\/p>\n<h1>Being Grateful: 10 Things to Be Thankful For When You\u2019re Dealing With A Toxic Family Member<\/h1>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1115 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Happy-Thanksgiving-What-are-you-thankful-for.png\" alt=\"happy-thanksgiving-what-are-you-thankful-for\" width=\"530\" height=\"444\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Happy-Thanksgiving-What-are-you-thankful-for.png 940w, https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Happy-Thanksgiving-What-are-you-thankful-for-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/gaylekatz.com\/groundedgirlsguide\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Happy-Thanksgiving-What-are-you-thankful-for-768x644.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 530px) 100vw, 530px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s that time of year again. Thanksgiving and the other holidays are here.<\/p>\n<p>With that said, here are the top 10 things to be\u00a0thankful for when you\u2019re\u00a0in the midst of dealing with a toxic family member during the holidays.<\/p>\n<p>And they just might apply to you too.<\/p>\n<h2>Top 10 Things to Be Thankful For<\/h2>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h3><strong>#10 \u2013 Indoor plumbing<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Running water, modern toilets, and sewer systems are all important. Let\u2019s face it. It would be a big mess otherwise. The plumbing salesman from the Mel Brooks movie <em>History of the World: Part I<\/em> says it best: \u201cPipe the shit right out of your house!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention if you happen to live with your toxic family member or even you\u2019re just visiting, the bathroom is always a convenient sanctuary when you need one.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#9 \u2013 An Internet Connection<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Your Internet connection connects you with virtually everything, which is especially relevant here since you couldn\u2019t read this without one.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#8 \u2013 Facebook Support Groups<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>These groups allow you to discover and have conversations with similar people with shared problems and \u2013 hopefully \u2013 find solutions. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/1163912193679431\/\" target=\"_blank\">Maybe you would be well-served to join our group?<\/a><\/p>\n<h3><strong>#7 \u2013 Books, Magazines, and Blogs<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Take a break and get lost in another world or learn something new. It\u2019s only a page turn or click away.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#6 \u2013 Waking Up In The Morning<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Life is difficult, but each sunrise brings new hope. Yesterday is wiped away and you can start anew.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#5 \u2013 Boundaries<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re dealing with a toxic relative, make sure you set boundaries. If someone is not being nice and is highly critical of you, let them know what they say makes you feel bad. You also have a duty to let them know you won\u2019t stand for that type of treatment. Consequently, make sure to stand your ground no matter what.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#4 \u2013 Pain<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Feeling pain can be good. Only by experiencing pain can you identify and acknowledge what it feels like to be happy.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#3 \u2013 Wisdom<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Having wisdom means you learn from your mistakes and some things you only learn from experiencing them.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#2 \u2013 Fear<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Facing your fears forces you to get out of your comfort zone and meet someone new, learn something different, and face the unknown with courage.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#1 \u2013 You and Your Voice<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re the only one of your kind. You are unique. You have a voice. Because of all these reasons. Use it. Speak up.<\/p>\n<p>Now it\u2019s your turn.<\/p>\n<p>What are you thankful for? Tell me in the comments below or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/1163912193679431\/\" target=\"_blank\">join our Facebook group and spout off there<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being Grateful: 10 Things to Be Thankful For When You\u2019re Dealing With A Toxic Family Member It\u2019s that time of year again. Thanksgiving and the other holidays are here. With that said, here are the top 10 things to be\u00a0thankful for when you\u2019re\u00a0in the midst of dealing with a toxic family member during the holidays. 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