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Maybe you met your special someone at work. Or maybe you met on one of the many dating websites like eHarmony or Match.com. Maybe a friend set you up on a blind date.<\/p>\n
However you met the person you\u2019re currently in a relationship with, you want to do everything in your power to make it a healthy one, right? I\u2019m going to assume that you\u2019re really into this person and want to make a go of it.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re perplexed about how to rev up your relationship so it has the best chance of succeeding, listen up because I\u2019m going to share my secrets on what has NOT worked.<\/p>\n
If you know you do one of the no-no\u2019s below or catch yourself doing them, cut it out.<\/p>\n
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#1 \u2013 Be A Lone Wolf<\/strong><\/h3>\nWhen you were single, being a lone wolf may have been okay. Now that you\u2019re in a relationship, you should consider the other person. Whether it\u2019s where to chow down for dinner or what to do on the weekend, you need to be a team and talk through these decisions together.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re not supporting your team, it probably won\u2019t grow and flourish. And if your significant other was including you, that may end when s\/he realizes you\u2019re not doing the same.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You\u2019re a team in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#2 \u2013 Lack\u00a0Self-Confidence<\/strong><\/h3>\nWe all have insecurities. Anyone who tells you differently is lying to you. The difference between someone who radiates self-confidence and someone who doesn\u2019t is that they believe in themselves.<\/p>\n
No matter what happens, a self-confident person believes they can do anything, accomplish any goal, and they\u2019ll find a way to make it happen. A person who lacks self-confidence will find any excuse or blame someone else as to why they can\u2019t do something.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You\u2019re confident in yourself in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#3 \u2013 Nag<\/strong><\/h3>\nAccording to a Wall Street Journal article, nagging in a relationship is more common than cheating and probably just as toxic. (I would have linked over to the article, but for some reason it requires you to subscribe or sign in now, which is a total bummer.)<\/p>\n
The bottom-line is don\u2019t nag each other. Easier said than done, right? As you probably guessed, women generally have a bad rap for nagging, but that doesn\u2019t mean men are innocent.<\/p>\n
To have a healthy relationship the key is to communicate openly and honestly. Don\u2019t place blame or remind your significant other about something they did wrong or didn\u2019t do in the past. Use encouraging words that convey WHY you want him to do something.<\/p>\n
Instead of saying, \u201cCan you take out the trash? You didn\u2019t do it yesterday and the house stinks.\u201d<\/p>\n
Try saying, \u201cI\u2019d really appreciate it if you could take out the trash so it doesn\u2019t smell.\u201d<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You communicate mindfully in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#4 \u2013 Be Boring In Bed<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
<\/h3>\n#2 \u2013 Lack\u00a0Self-Confidence<\/strong><\/h3>\nWe all have insecurities. Anyone who tells you differently is lying to you. The difference between someone who radiates self-confidence and someone who doesn\u2019t is that they believe in themselves.<\/p>\n
No matter what happens, a self-confident person believes they can do anything, accomplish any goal, and they\u2019ll find a way to make it happen. A person who lacks self-confidence will find any excuse or blame someone else as to why they can\u2019t do something.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You\u2019re confident in yourself in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#3 \u2013 Nag<\/strong><\/h3>\nAccording to a Wall Street Journal article, nagging in a relationship is more common than cheating and probably just as toxic. (I would have linked over to the article, but for some reason it requires you to subscribe or sign in now, which is a total bummer.)<\/p>\n
The bottom-line is don\u2019t nag each other. Easier said than done, right? As you probably guessed, women generally have a bad rap for nagging, but that doesn\u2019t mean men are innocent.<\/p>\n
To have a healthy relationship the key is to communicate openly and honestly. Don\u2019t place blame or remind your significant other about something they did wrong or didn\u2019t do in the past. Use encouraging words that convey WHY you want him to do something.<\/p>\n
Instead of saying, \u201cCan you take out the trash? You didn\u2019t do it yesterday and the house stinks.\u201d<\/p>\n
Try saying, \u201cI\u2019d really appreciate it if you could take out the trash so it doesn\u2019t smell.\u201d<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You communicate mindfully in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#4 \u2013 Be Boring In Bed<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
We all have insecurities. Anyone who tells you differently is lying to you. The difference between someone who radiates self-confidence and someone who doesn\u2019t is that they believe in themselves.<\/p>\n
No matter what happens, a self-confident person believes they can do anything, accomplish any goal, and they\u2019ll find a way to make it happen. A person who lacks self-confidence will find any excuse or blame someone else as to why they can\u2019t do something.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You\u2019re confident in yourself in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#3 \u2013 Nag<\/strong><\/h3>\nAccording to a Wall Street Journal article, nagging in a relationship is more common than cheating and probably just as toxic. (I would have linked over to the article, but for some reason it requires you to subscribe or sign in now, which is a total bummer.)<\/p>\n
The bottom-line is don\u2019t nag each other. Easier said than done, right? As you probably guessed, women generally have a bad rap for nagging, but that doesn\u2019t mean men are innocent.<\/p>\n
To have a healthy relationship the key is to communicate openly and honestly. Don\u2019t place blame or remind your significant other about something they did wrong or didn\u2019t do in the past. Use encouraging words that convey WHY you want him to do something.<\/p>\n
Instead of saying, \u201cCan you take out the trash? You didn\u2019t do it yesterday and the house stinks.\u201d<\/p>\n
Try saying, \u201cI\u2019d really appreciate it if you could take out the trash so it doesn\u2019t smell.\u201d<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You communicate mindfully in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#4 \u2013 Be Boring In Bed<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
#3 \u2013 Nag<\/strong><\/h3>\nAccording to a Wall Street Journal article, nagging in a relationship is more common than cheating and probably just as toxic. (I would have linked over to the article, but for some reason it requires you to subscribe or sign in now, which is a total bummer.)<\/p>\n
The bottom-line is don\u2019t nag each other. Easier said than done, right? As you probably guessed, women generally have a bad rap for nagging, but that doesn\u2019t mean men are innocent.<\/p>\n
To have a healthy relationship the key is to communicate openly and honestly. Don\u2019t place blame or remind your significant other about something they did wrong or didn\u2019t do in the past. Use encouraging words that convey WHY you want him to do something.<\/p>\n
Instead of saying, \u201cCan you take out the trash? You didn\u2019t do it yesterday and the house stinks.\u201d<\/p>\n
Try saying, \u201cI\u2019d really appreciate it if you could take out the trash so it doesn\u2019t smell.\u201d<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You communicate mindfully in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#4 \u2013 Be Boring In Bed<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
<\/h3>\n#4 \u2013 Be Boring In Bed<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
If your relationship has progressed to the point where you\u2019re intimate with each other, make the most of this time together. In the beginning it might take some work for the two of you to find your groove, but as you get to know what the other person likes make sure you use that to your advantage.<\/p>\n
At a loss on how to add some spice to your romantic dalliances? Try different sex positions \u2013 missionary is so pass\u00e9. You might also consider some roleplaying games where you dress up in sexy lingerie. Men \u2013 that means you too. You could also change up where you have sex. Forgo the bed and try other rooms in the house.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You nurture excitement in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/h3>\n#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
#5 \u2013 Be Too Dominant<\/strong><\/h3>\nIf you\u2019ve been single for a long time, you\u2019ve probably become accustom to doing everything for yourself and that\u2019s a good thing. It shows you\u2019re independent.<\/p>\n
However, once you\u2019re in a relationship with someone, you might want to consider allowing your significant other to contribute and make your life a little easier.<\/p>\n
These are the niceties of being in a relationship \u2013 having someone else cook for you, allowing someone to open the door for you, and having someone else pump your gas. These are just some of the ways we show we care.<\/p>\n
Takeaway: You keep your independent spirit, but allow the other person to care for you in a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
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A healthy relationship requires both people to compromise.<\/strong><\/h2>\nOf course the pendulum swings both ways. If you\u2019re working hard to avoid these relationship no-no\u2019s and your significant other isn\u2019t responding in kind, you\u2019ll probably want to talk with them and see what\u2019s up.<\/p>\n
If they still don\u2019t respond to your efforts, you might want to consider ending the relationship. You can\u2019t have a relationship with yourself, right?<\/p>\n
Like this article? Want more? Click here to email me and ask for an advanced copy of my new book<\/a> about healthy relationships. Yep. Once it\u2019s ready, I\u2019ll send you a free copy and all I ask in return is an honest review. Sound good? Email me right now and get on the list!<\/a><\/p>\nHaving a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n
Having a problem in your relationship? Want to chat about it? Hit up our Facebook group and let us support you.<\/a><\/p>\n